It's OK to be weird

SHAKING THE TREE #111

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Good news to all the weirdos out there! Your quirks are your superpowers.

Today more than ever we’re, when we’re overly obsessed with curated social media feeds and filtered photos, weirdness is something to be avoided. Or so it seems.

As a result, and as the pressure to conform suffocates originality, weirdness in all its glory is something to be avoided at all costs and something to be looked down on.

But what if your weirdness isn't a flaw?

What if it’s actually your secret weapon?

What if being somehow other, somehow original is a good thing and something to be embraced, celebrated, and championed?

What if, by embracing your quirks, you’re more likely to find the key to unlocking your true potential?

Here are a few thoughts:

Weirdness breeds creativity: The mainstream is safe, cosy, and comfortable, but in those spaces there is rarely anything groundbreaking going on.

Your offbeat perspective and your unique outlook isn’t a curse, it’s actually a breeding ground for new thinking, fresh ideas, and innovative solutions.

Practically every new, exciting, and ground-breaking development has come about because someone did or pushing something that was a little bit odd.

Don't be afraid to color outside the lines – your unique approach might just be the spark that ignites a revolution.

Weirdness attracts your tribe: Trying to be everything to everyone leaves you invisible. When you embrace your weirdness, you attract people who resonate with your unique frequency.

Building a community around your quirks fosters genuine connections and a sense of belonging.

Weirdness makes you memorable: In a sea of sameness, standing out is a superpower.

Your quirks are what make you unforgettable. People remember the passionate anime fan, the collector of vintage teacups, or the person who walks their dog in a tutu.

Embrace what makes you different – it's your personal brand of magic.

Weirdness breeds confidence: Owning your quirks takes courage, but the payoff is immense.

When you stop trying to fit in and embrace your true self, you project an aura of confidence that's magnetic.

This self-assurance spills over into every aspect of your life, from your career to your relationships.

Weirdness paves the way for authenticity: The world craves authenticity.

People connect with those who are genuine and unafraid to be themselves.

Ditching the mask and embracing your weirdness allows you to connect with others on a deeper level, fostering true and lasting relationships.

So, the next time you feel the urge to hide your quirks, remember this: your weirdness is your strength.

It fuels your creativity, attracts your tribe, and makes you unforgettable. Don't be afraid to let your freak flag fly – the world needs your unique brand of awesome!

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P.S. Next time on Shaking the Tree … From goldfish to ducks!